Ignoring Reason And Moral Duty To Harbour And Support Predatory Trolling
In March 2022, I personally appealed to Graham Lea, the managing partner of Hempsons LLP and superior to my half-sister, Tania Francis, to inform him of her relentless harassment and coercion of me over the previous year and that I was going to be escalating the matter for my own protection. I also informed him that I strongly suspected Mrs Francis’s extensive involvement in the anti Lighthouse smear campaign by predatory trolls online. I explained how her involvement in such an unlawful and criminal attack on the characters, lives and livelihoods of myself and all of those associated with me would only bring greater and greater consequences that seriously impact her career. It was my hope that he would privately counsel Mrs Francis and help dissuade her from the damaging and destructive path she was going down for her sake and that of his firm’s reputation. His initial reply back in March 2022 was receptive and it seemed he took this very seriously at the time.
However, since then, as Mrs Francis was clearly not advised, she carried on her behaviour and I have appealed again and again to Mr Lea with a steady escalation. Sadly he has clearly failed to take action in pursuading Mrs Francis to cease her destructive and futile behaviour, despite the potential impact to himself and his firm as a result. Where I have offered evidence in support of the fact that she is following an illegal and unlawful course of conduct he has not even acknowledged it. Nor has he cooperated with my requests to impel her to remove posts on Reddit where she has continually tried to coerce and control me, while attacking my livelihood. Even on the basis of helping to broker a peace and find a way to make wrongs right. This letter is a copy of my most recent email informing Mr Lea that I will not rest until my half-sister takes responsibility for her actions and makes amends. It is also part of my greater stand to help ensure companies who harbour predatory trolls like Tania, making themsleves complicit in such behaviour by the staff they are funding will be held publicly accountable for their failure to intervene.
My Letter To Graham Lea, Managing Partner Of Hempsons LLP:
Mr Lea,
In response to your last email, stating that you intend to take no action in line with my email to you about the damage Tania Francis has inflicted to me, my livelihood and Lighthouse Global, I am appalled at your response, your avoidance of responsibility and a sheer lack of duty of care. Since March 2022, I have given you every opportunity to take this matter seriously and to act accordingly by being a part of the solution (Mrs Francis, your firm, and me) and indeed at the time of my first email I was assured by you that this would be the case. It is unfathomable as to why you minimise and dismiss this situation, take no responsibility and not hold Mrs Francis accountable for her bad spirited intentions, the destruction she has caused and her unrepentant attitude to her wrongdoing.
This letter is going to be published online along with the rest of our correspondence thus far so that the general public are made aware of the companies who harbour predatory trolls and who, although they have a duty of care to the public, refuse to take action where one of their own partners has caused such harm to others. This is in the public interest.
Mrs Francis is devastating whatever reputation she had and is now starting to drag Hempsons down with her. My barrister was astonished at how irrationally unreasonable she was being. What you now have, Mr Lea, is that Mrs Francis wishes that she had acted very differently but she is in so deep now she has felt she needs to carry on. I implore you to look at this differently from your own personal perspective as well as strongly encourage her to change her attitude and her approach because the Groundswell around David and Goliath means the everyday man and woman will no longer be harassed and bullied by those who seemingly have greater power and influence and/or reach, whether tyrannical organisations or unscrupulous individuals.
The bottom line is that this isn’t going to go away! You were hoping something will happen in the court and it would help you decide what you need to do to act. As the leader of the firm, you need to act outside of any decision from any court. You need to look objectively into what has actually gone on here. If you had the full facts and knew what was really going on and what Mrs Francis has really done, if you were privy to every conversation, everything she has done, every message and how she has colluded and conspired with predatory trolls in this unlawful and illegal smear campaign, I have every reason to believe you would be acting very differently as a reasonable person within the law.
Latest developments
I am writing to inform you that the latest developments in court with Mrs Francis ought to concern you as they have shown to me and to my barrister, Stephanie Heijdra. In particular how utterly unreasonable Mrs Francis has been to bring this matter to a close, which I would have thought would have been in everyone’s interest including your own. I have been given no assurance by the court due only to the technicality of the laws around non-molestation orders and the very particular nature of what Mrs Francis has done online in applying pressure to coercively control me and break down my support structures. However, it must be made absolutely clear that the lack of non-molestation order being granted in my case is a technicality based on time elapsed, but the ongoing effects of which have nevertheless been extremely damaging to me and many other people and their families. The very next time Mrs Francis does anything like she has done, it will go straight to court again and it will be granted.
Mr Lea, given your senior position at Hempsons LLP, I know that you will need to be a good judge of the quality of character of your partners in particular, so this must be very difficult for you given who Mrs Francis is revealing herself to be. I never intended for Mrs Francis to lose her job, however what is being revealed is deeply concerning for all of us. In short, because of Mrs Francis’s hubris, her delusions and denial, Hempsons LLP are now being dragged into a global scandal with her at the centre of it as one of the ring leaders of this illegal and unlawful smear campaign. A case study is currently being put together on coercively controlling siblings which will strongly feature Mrs Francis and it will be published through David vs Goliath. Hempsons LLP is also being used in a case study for companies that harbour and protect predatory trolls. As you will see in the below post, she has been outed as one of those who lied and provide a false testimony to Action Fraud, which she based on my experience at Lighthouse that she knows nothing of.
Mrs Francis, is causing me a lot of pain, damage, hassle and not just to me but my partners, my business and our work by colluding with trolls. So whilst Mrs Francis is claiming she is worried and trying to protect me, the person whom she is supposedly trying to protect, myself, is holding her and her firm extremely accountable. Surely you must see there is something terribly wrong with the chaos that has unfolded here and that this is very out of sync with how things ought to be, so I am asking you to put things right. Whilst Mrs Francis will hide behind good intentions in trying to “protect me”, I’m writing to you saying that is not at all the case. In fact Mrs Francis is harassing me and not respecting my life choices and causing huge damage to me when I am trying to preserve my health and livelihood. Is this the sort of person you are going to stand with in the public eye? Because that’s where this is going. Are you going to stand for this in the public domain Mr Lea? Do your clients know this is who you employ? Because Mrs Francis loves the term ‘in the public interest’ and believe me this is not just in the public interest but this is of interest to the public.
Refusing solutions
What bemused my barrister is that Mrs Francis stubbornly refused any undertaking or indeed a cross-undertaking which I tabled with broad but very reasonable terms, offering the following areas as the basis for a CROSS undertaking:
- For both of us to make absolutely no attempt to contact the other either directly or indirectly, in any way or guise, whatsoever.
- That neither of us do anything to intimidate, harass or pester the other, or in any way encourage or suggest that any one else should do so.
- That neither of us, whether in our own name or under a pseudonym, is to post anything about or referring to the other in any shape or form on social media platforms or give any comment to any form of media outlet about the other whatsoever.
- That both of us, where it is within our control, remove any and all existing posts about or referring to the other person, including reference to their work and projects, on and across all social media platforms and online spaces, whether the other person is explicitly named or not.
- That both parties request that any and all posts or interviews they have been involved with in regards to or relating to the other be removed as soon as possible by third parties, whether or not that request is granted.
- That neither of us makes any attempt to contact or post about the other’s workplaces and/or projects that they are personally involved with for professional purposes.
In my opinion these terms are extremely reasonable and fair and I would have taken suggestions on how to make them more specific if need be. However, even when my barrister offered the most basic template undertaking, which actually would have not offered me the full protection and assurance I need, but would have at least been a deposit of trust from Mrs Francis to move in the right direction and to seek a resolution for this conflict and the damage done by her actions, she still refused.
I did not ask for this or start this, she did. I’m not writing to you because I’m going off the rails or lost the plot but rather, I’m going to court and holding her accountable for my health and to make this situation right, something which you ought to want as much as I do. I am writing to you to make sure the record is put straight to make sure you at the very least advise this person correctly and let me know you have. I cannot take my foot off the gas given your attitude and the way Mrs Francis is with her denial and total unwillingness to do the right thing. It is prudent that I continue with this because history has shown every time I have taken my foot off the gas, she has put her foot on it.
That is to say, Mr Lea, that you must be under absolutely no illusions as to who is being unreasonable and who is seeking peace here, because I can assure you that Mrs Francis has made no effort to acknowledge any wrongdoing with all the evidence in place, never mind make things right. Even my barrister could not understand why on earth someone would not agree to the most peaceful and reasonable undertaking (which apparently is what Mrs Francis’ intentions are, in line with family reunion and family peace! This shows her hidden and real agenda. This is not family, this is coercive control and one upmanship), one which Mrs Francis would not have had to report to the SRA, but would have been a step towards resolution and assuring my protection. This is very damning from someone whom I am sure has shown you many crocodile tears about how concerned she is and cares so much for me. To me, it seems very inconsistent to say that someone cares so much and then rejects a reasonable and viable path to a solution! Wouldn’t you agree that shows, at the very least, inconsistent, if not duplicitous behaviour, given that it was family peace and unity and my health that was apparently her reason to do all of this? Ironic, wouldn’t you say?
Public accountability
I have written a post, link below, about taking Mrs Francis to court as I stated I would in my previous email and that the truth would be coming out. This article is as a mitigating measure against the reputational, financial, emotional and psychological destruction Mrs Francis has been a part of facilitating against me and those I care about. I would also like to remind you that, as for the allegations made against me and Lighthouse Global (which Mrs Francis is attacking), there are and have been zero criminal charges brought against myself and/or Lighthouse itself – there have been no police investigations, no lawyers letters received, nothing! Just a very public smear campaign with unsubstantiated, unproven and unevidenced hearsay conducted by the tabloids and on the basis of false information Mrs Francis has made up about me in relation to Lighthouse (one lie in particular being that I am a shareholder and a creditor at Lighthouse, when I categorically am not!). How is this? Quite simply and self-evidently because we have done nothing criminal! So you see, Mr Lea, you have absolutely no good reason whatsoever to disregard or doubt what I have written. Especially when I am the one with evidence in this regard and ample amounts of it too.
I implore you once more to do the right thing, and not just because I ask you to, but because it is what is objectively right and just to do so, based on the very principles on which the law you practise is based! Based on valuing truth itself. For me, as a Christian, truth is founded in my belief in Jesus Christ and the commandments which He calls all of humanity to live by. I do not know your beliefs Mr Lea, but I do know we will all have to stand before our creator one day and answer for our actions. We must therefore do our absolute best not to turn a blind eye and stand up for what is objectively right, even if it is extremely difficult and inconvenient for us. I don’t for a moment think that this has been an easy situation for any of us involved, however this is all the more reason to do what is right and to seek a resolution here, as peacemakers for the betterment of everyone.
This is yet another opportunity to make this right, in line with the demands of my previous email, but you must also know that I will continue to escalate this, both formally and publicly, where needed, in order to protect myself and my livelihood. It is becoming increasingly and apparently clear that neither the justice system that ought to protect me, nor you who indirectly fund and support Mrs Francis’ harassment of me, have been willing to provide the level of protection that I need. I am going to make sure that I get that protection, whatever that takes.
It is tragically ironic that given you are a law firm who ought to uphold what is right and just and yet I am having to write to you yet again. I guarantee you, Mr Lea, justice will be served here – The truth is incontrovertible. Malice may attack it, ignorance may deride it, but in the end, there it is – and I strongly encourage you to place yourself on the right side of it because at the moment you are at the very least condoning harassment, but increasingly, by not taking action, you are complicit with the malicious, systematic and persistent abuse of myself and Lighthouse Global as a whole by these predatory trolls, one of which is Mrs Francis.
Regards,
Melissa
Read More: Taking Tania Francis of Hempsons LLP to Court & Leaving The Cult of My Coercive & Controlling Family
HARASSMENT IN THE NAME OF LOVE - Facing my sister Tania Francis of Hempsons LLP in court to stop her abuse.
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Mel, it is incomprehensible that a law firm like Hempsons LLP cannot see through a person like Tania Francis. Surely, when they are interviewing a client, or hearing testimonies from someone suing another, things like crocodile tears will be very evident to them and one of many manipulative and coercive aspects that they ought to be aware of. What this is highlighting to me is understanding why people do not have faith in the justice system or in Law. I am grateful that you have shared this letter with us, for this is what needs to get out and be seen by millions of innocent people who have fallen prey to toxic family members like Mrs Francis who lie to the Secretary of State, troll online and worse want to control you and your life! What’s also worse is that law firms like Hempsons LLP and other organisations foster this type of toxicity and pathology and encourage this kind of destructive behaviour!
This is the building block of a starting foundation to hold them and others accountable and to show those who have fallen victim, how to take action and that they know that they are not alone, there is a groundswell of people who will not take their foot off the gas, (I love that analogy). Thank you for sharing this Mel, and I pray that Mr Lea finally takes this situation seriously and takes action. It is not about getting revenge, this is about justice and for Mrs Francis to acknowledge her wrongdoings and to make them right. If she still refuses and Mr Lea still refuses to take action, God help them!
One thing that I love Mel is that you are taking the stand that you are! There’s nothing quite like that to build your character and strength in Christ!
The fact that Hempsons LLP is also being used in a case study for companies that harbour and protect predatory trolls is a damning lesson for them indeed! I pray for Hempson LLP to reform and learn from this! It’s shameful that Mr Lea clearly condones Mrs Tania Francis awful behaviour and has done nothing to show he cares about her to give her any counsel or advice to stop inevitably harming herself, not to mention you and innocent lives here! What’s worse is Tania Francis has shown that she refuses to acknowledge or accept responsibility for her toxic, trolling, controlling behaviour! Anyone who refuses to make their wrongs right is by definition toxic! Hempsons LLP are complicit now! I am praying for your half sister Mel. Brilliant letter! Thank you again for finding the courage to stand up. God bless x x
Thank you for standing up to this Mel, it’s so important to call this out in public. When someone is effectively being harboured and funded by their employer to carry out such behaviour then it’s the employer’s responsibility to hold them accountable to the full extent of their ability. We have a duty as a society to make sure that such destructive and toxic behaviours are in no way shape or form acceptable. To not do so is only to allow such destructive actions to proliferate and increase and we can’t allow for that. Someone like Mrs Francis has shown so little remorse, so little responsibility and most of all, so little care for her own sibling to even come to an agreement for a resolution just to respect her own half-sister’s wishes and peace of mind and heart. It’s terrible to see such pride and stubbornness where love and care ought to be and I pray that Mr Lea and Mrs Francis both learn and see sense from this
Too many individuals and organisations believe they get away with any form of abuse or can hide behind doing nothing. Reading your post here, Mel, feels very encouraging and shows that we are not helpless but that there are ways to stand up for truth and reality. You show very clearly what happened and also where the law system let you down. I appreciate your strength and courage to hold your sister accountable and to stop your sister’s coercive control. I hope Mr Lea understands your message and acts accordingly. God bless you, Mel
Mel, what shocked me the most about what you’ve written here are the terms you presented to Tania Francis for this situation to be resolved. You’re looking for repentance and atonement, but we are all seeing a hubristic reaction from Tania Francis that simply defies logic.
I remember how responsive the police were to your report at the start of 2022. You didn’t want your own sister to be arrested and you thought that a police warning would be enough to deter someone who is a legal professional. You exercised mercy and compassion because you could see her career would be destroyed as a result of her obsessive desire to control you and your decisions as someone in your late 20s! Now here we are, almost two years later, and Tania Francis is yet to cease from seeing the sheer foolishness of her actions. Your barrister (who was initially skeptical of you and your case) is now at a complete loss as to why Tania Francis would want to jeopardise her career and her personal reputation over this irrational vendetta against Lighthouse, Paul Waugh and all of us who ultimately want you to heal from your trauma growing up. In Tania Francis’ mind you have been brainwashed, kidnapped and controlled, yet you can leave Lighthouse at any time!
Now Hempsons LLP is being dragged into this, which is frankly ridiculous, but now it’s necessary. Is nothing sacred in Tania Francis’ life? Mel, you have tried to reason with your sister’s employer because Tania Francis would not listen to you and she would not listen to the police. Who will she actually listen to? Additionally Hempsons LLP are complicit with Tania Francis’ actions through their inability to act decisively here. Not only that, but Tania Francis has even been posting on Reddit in office hours which means Hempsons LLP have effectively been paying her to troll you and us!
I really appreciate your increasing strength and maturity that’s evident in your email to Graham Lea. You state things with reason, objectivity and fact along with the offer of evidence. I pray that a resolution will be found in this matter, that Tania Francis will repent and atone for what stress, distress and damage she’s caused. At the very least I pray that she will see that taking responsibility will be a self-preservatory act before it’s too late! There are natural consequences to her actions because Tania Francis is seeking to control your free will in the name of love. As M. Scott Peck discovered in his study of human evil, doing wicked things in the name of good is the definition of human evil.
In the meantime this situation is proving to be an incredibly valuable case study revealing the psychopathic nature of narcissistic control. I pray that others; family members being coercively controlled by family members and employers of malignantly toxic individuals, will see this and learn what’s needed to protect conscientious and good-hearted people. It’s one thing to read about this in books like Toxic Parents by Dr Susan Forward and People of the Lie by M. Scott Peck but to see this play out publicly shows that evil knows no bounds.
God bless you Mel and may God help all those involved to move forward with wisdom, discernment, courage and compassion.
I would like to build upon what you’ve been speaking about. The reality is Mel tried for a long while to build her relationship with her sister, holding off with pressing charges through the police etc. Here where the case was damning, the only reason the non-molestation order was not granted was only because it was not requested within the required timeframe. It was too long from the first instance of harassment to when legal action was taken. I think that it’s important to know and now it’s mainly for Tania Francis to agree not to interact with Mel on her own volition, if Mel requested the NMO sooner, it would be legally binding that Tania couldn’t interact with her half-sister. In hindsight Mel from what transpired learning so clearly the ill intent and narcissistic nature of Tania, she would have gotten the authorities involved much sooner.
There is a big lesson here: timing is key. Don’t wait too long to get the authorities involved because they may be your only means for a satisfactory outcome. I felt this was a very important lesson to share.
This is disgraceful! Are we talking about a solicitors firm here?! A managing partner of a solicitors firm, whose clients would expect to uphold a lawful, moral and ethical standard, knowingly and wilfully allowed a practising solicitor to carry out harassment and abuse of their own family member whilst she took no responsibility to stop and come to a resolution?
The code of conduct they are supposed to adhere to, might as well not exist since they are so blatantly and unashamedly in complete breach of it….and that is just the code of conduct. What about the morals and ethics of a decent human being?
Thank you for taking a stand Mel and letting them know categorically, that you, we, will not cease, there will be justice and always, always consequences.
I pray for us all involved in such an injustice, including those who have caused harm and are complicit in this harm too.
Bless you Mel for your heartfelt sharing again, and it is a deep shame you have to write this letter because your half-sister is a predatory troll who clearly deceives herself and others to who she really is. I see sibling rivalry is a real thing that can continue into adulthood, if you can really call it that. I have it with my older brother and it was a shock to really experience it, that he was not seeing me as a human being but ‘something’ to compete with and beat, showing himself he’s better, as a valuation of who he is and his value. I can see there is a deep denial your half-sister has, that’s scary not just for her but the people around her, such as Hempsons LLP who will suffer now, because I’m with you on not letting up on making things right. We all ought to be doing that for the health and safety of our society and in our personal lives, now and especially for the future. God bless you for sharing, it was inspiring to read.
Phew – it is damning that a law firm is not upholding the law! I know firsthand the pain you went through with Mrs Cruise coercive control and it’s such a tragedy that you had to resort to such lengths that caused you further pain to try and have this painful situation resolved.
The more you share Mel, the more I see how damming the in-action of leadership can be.
In every employment contract I have signed, there was always a clause about ‘uphold the company reputation at all times personally and professionally’, ‘maintain a high level of character’ or words to that effect!
Tania Francis is clearly threatening the company’s reputation, let alone showing her own vile actions towards someone she claims to ‘love and care for’ yet the leadership of Hempsons LLP do nothing?
This shows the lack of conscience and courage to take a stand for what is right by said management.
May God bless you Mel!
Wow, bless you Mel, thank you so much for taking a stand! This is a strong and clear email to Mr Lea and one that I hope and pray he takes heed of. Obsessive and narcissistic siblings being at the core of this, as you shared there, justice will be served, publicly and imminently! If the right action is not taken. I pray he, Mr Lea, takes heed of what you’ve said. This is an example of what is yet to come in holding these organisations and individuals accountable who allow this type of behaviour, whether complicitly condoning it or just plain ignoring it which is by default condoning it, where nothing is done! Thank you for your courage and bravery and for putting these institutions and individuals within these institutions to rights and holding them account. This hasn’t been an easy journey for you, nor a painless one! As I’m sure you can attest, but what needs to be done is what is right, and the groundswell of support will be and is right there behind you and standing with you. God bless you, Mel, thank you 🙏🏻 x x
God bless you Mel, for taking a stand for truth and accountability, not only for yourself but for others like you and us!
Despite being wrongfully accused and coercively controlled, we are yet falling through the gaps of a system apparently unable if not completely unwilling to serve the due course of justice!
May all involved seek truth, recognise their wrongs, and repent and reform for their own sake 🙏🏼
“The bottom line is that this isn’t going to go away!”
For their sake it has to be right in their face and I really hope that both your half sister, Mr Lea, and all the other predators & accomplices realise what they’ve done, how they have wronged us and that they do repent, they do change and make amends. That has been and always is the highest aspiration here – for reform and healing through this whatever it takes. These people have proven that reasoning and appealing to their conscience in private does not work. So as you say this is absolutely in the public interest and the interest of the public.
Two things struck me reading your plea to Mr Lea…
First, that your half sister did not want to take that cross undertaking because it would be an admission of guilt. By admitting the need to not harass you, she would be admitting she has been harassing you. And no doubt that would have been a stain on her legal career. Yet again revealing that her reputation and her own personal brand of a caring, loyal family member is far more important than actually caring for you. Any healthy, rational, caring human being would agree to that undertaking.
Secondly, his compliance and sympathy with Tania Francis is deeply worrying. Sympathising with a predatory troll, who as you say, has probably poured on the crocodile tears, is not a wise move. Maybe he has some secrets of his own and wants to protect his own brand as well as Tania’s? Who knows but him and God. This is how countries fall – sympathising with evil and then the good people of that land are crushed by that very evil, including the sympathisers. I hope Mr Lea wakes up to this but if not now he will certainly see the seriousness of this as David Vs Goliath unfolds.
God bless you Mel and everyone supporting you to hold yourself, the predators and their accomplices accountable, ultimately to God’s justice and His laws. 🙏💥
Spot on Sukh, countries fail and are failing as we encourage and indulge sympathisers in this age of unreason, as stated by Melanie Philips. Who knows what sob story Tania told Graham that he would fail so spectacularly to hold her to account…or is it we could not appeal to his conscience because his conscience was seared ,a many years ago? Only time will tell….but I thank God Mel is able to start the healing process to recover from the betrayal and abuse of Tania and the further betrayal of Graham Lea.
What a strong, balanced and lovingly accountable letter to Mr Lea at Hempsons Mel. Laying out the facts and the multiple offers both your sister and he have ignored. This won’t go away! God bless you and everyone involved in supporting you to do this.
This is a powerful piece, written with such strength, candour, love towards those who are complicit in malicious attacks from predatory trolls.
This much like the post about taking your sister to court, Mel, is an essential read for so many. I hope and pray that this will help so many who are facing this manipulation from so-called family members